tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8985288635111425215.post2003615582855326276..comments2023-05-25T04:27:07.695-08:00Comments on For the Love of baby Liam: In Regards To The Last PostBeckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11917822168137274298noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8985288635111425215.post-41854568191240257092014-07-30T14:45:04.365-08:002014-07-30T14:45:04.365-08:00Sorry it took me so long to reply. We have talked ...Sorry it took me so long to reply. We have talked about international surrogacy but just not sure it is something we are comfortable doing. I suppose i could read more blogs of others who have done and had wonderful outcomes, but unfortunately the one blog I have read did not have a very outcome. It also was costly as one of the baby, of twins, had to be in the nice in India for a very long time until being able to come back to the USA. And even when they got the babies home the one eventually died. It all just scares me. And India is so far away.Beckyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11917822168137274298noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8985288635111425215.post-49172874376767650872014-07-30T12:53:21.857-08:002014-07-30T12:53:21.857-08:00Crumbs hun - how strange. We have been discussing...Crumbs hun - how strange. We have been discussing the same thing. I kinda feel that a girl is the missing piece. I love the boys like a crazy lady but am also now stuck. I don't think we can afford surrogacy again. Thinking about adoption but since the first language in our house isn't English I am not sure if that would rule us out. I am tempted to try myself again, despite everything, but have never fallen pregnant with a girl and would probably end up with another dead boy which would be a waste........tick tick tick xxxCBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10310670721379619908noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8985288635111425215.post-62521579350135840532014-07-25T18:54:11.704-08:002014-07-25T18:54:11.704-08:00Everyone is entitled to have hopes and dreams and ...Everyone is entitled to have hopes and dreams and wishes. Do you love Max? Absolutely. Does wanting another child, or a little girl take away from that? Absolutely NOT. I am sure that your life will move on if you don't have a little girl, and I am sure that Max will bask in your love, but that doesn't mean that there is anything wrong with wanting to expand your family. <br /><br />I know from your sidebar that you have heard about international surrogacy, but I am not sure why you have not mentioned it as an option. I think that there are a lot of financial benefits to going that route, and you also don't have a lot of the legal issues of using a surrogate from the States. And, finally, you are absolutely right about traditional surrogacy - I do agree with you, that it is not a preferable route, and is illegal in most parts of the US. <br /><br />I hope that all your dreams and hopes are fulfilled. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8985288635111425215.post-63650520269489878722014-07-23T11:34:20.198-08:002014-07-23T11:34:20.198-08:00People can be so ignorant. I'm guessing that c...People can be so ignorant. I'm guessing that comment came from someone who has had easy pregnancies and simply reads BLM blogs for a morbid look into a different life. <br /><br />Lucky? How insensitive. And you have every right to want and fight for as many children as you and your husband see fit. Under no circumstances should ANYONE (especially not an anonymous stranger) feel it is their place to impose their opinions on how you run your family. It is obvious that you are enjoying every minute with Max while at the same time, planning to potentially expand your family. Why would those be mutually exclusive? <br /><br />Wishing you only positive things and hopefully a gestational carrier that works out for your family.LookItsJessicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15098271882501686853noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8985288635111425215.post-77594589259303892892014-07-23T11:26:02.261-08:002014-07-23T11:26:02.261-08:00So some insurance companies won't have the exc...So some insurance companies won't have the exclusion in there plan to cover a surrogate pregnancy and then I could use their insurance, while others do. When we first Jessica we were excited that her insurance would've covered the pregnancy but then at the beginning of the new year right before we did our ivf, and then her work got new insurance and this new plan wouldn't cover it. So every insurance is different, it's just a matter of finding someone with a policy that covers it or be self pay or see if they live in a state that you can by a policy for them.Beckyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11917822168137274298noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8985288635111425215.post-69164085533361042852014-07-23T07:32:38.125-08:002014-07-23T07:32:38.125-08:00So terrible that someone had the gall to suggest t...So terrible that someone had the gall to suggest that you were lucky!?! WTF. Love to you and all your babies. Mama Bearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15448908179398529689noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8985288635111425215.post-2237121059801815432014-07-22T18:04:22.567-08:002014-07-22T18:04:22.567-08:00I am going to send out positive vibes for you that...I am going to send out positive vibes for you that not only will you know in your heart what path to take but also that you will have your little girl. I also want to add there is nothing wrong with yearning for a little girl, when reading your blog I can tell you love all of your children and completely understand your need for another daughter. I have a stupid question Why will the surrogates insurance carrier not cover the pregnancy?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8985288635111425215.post-18241974008799863592014-07-22T03:55:43.614-08:002014-07-22T03:55:43.614-08:00I'm sorry you have to deal with insensitive co...I'm sorry you have to deal with insensitive comments. Your blog should be a safe space for you to write about your journey. It was great to see that last comment, though :)Krystal Sullivanhttp://xobenjaminandconnerxo.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.com