tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8985288635111425215.post924736001689728025..comments2023-05-25T04:27:07.695-08:00Comments on For the Love of baby Liam: Planning a Burial, Church, and an UpdateBeckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11917822168137274298noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8985288635111425215.post-20792295251633556182011-03-29T18:39:52.532-08:002011-03-29T18:39:52.532-08:00It took me a long, long time to be able to make it...It took me a long, long time to be able to make it through church without crying (and really, I still am a frequent crier, but not every Sunday, like I used to be). It's hard to be around all those seemingly happy people and healthy babies.<br /><br />I'm sorry you won't be able to have Liam's burial on the day you wanted.Jennhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16614232173945249682noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8985288635111425215.post-31837642195554776332011-03-29T06:47:37.133-08:002011-03-29T06:47:37.133-08:00I just found your blog yesterday. I am so sorry fo...I just found your blog yesterday. I am so sorry for your loss. I understand about going to church and crying through most of the service. That is how it has been for me since we went back to church. It is okay if you are not up to it. I really believe that God meets us where we are, no matter where that is (not only in a church).Rachelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02274586692716466353noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8985288635111425215.post-79720428602099375332011-03-28T21:44:28.878-08:002011-03-28T21:44:28.878-08:00So sorry that you could have Liam's burial on ...So sorry that you could have Liam's burial on Mother's Day... this will be such a memorable and heart-breaking day for you that you need to do what you want to do, exactly how you want to do it. Thinking of you as you prepare for his burial xoxoDandelionBreezehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06988561541523178095noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8985288635111425215.post-32289599827142588742011-03-28T14:32:38.582-08:002011-03-28T14:32:38.582-08:00You don't have to go to church to get stronger...You don't have to go to church to get stronger in your faith. You can worship God on your own terms. Church would be too difficult for me too.<br /><br />I wish I could be more of a support for you but our losses are so different. If you ever need anything though, please don't hesitate to email me.<br /><br />As far as Liam's burial...do what is best for you. Make that day as special as you want it to be. It is your day, and Liam's too. No one else's...hugs to you!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13666103858316621352noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8985288635111425215.post-60675356505610918262011-03-28T02:19:39.555-08:002011-03-28T02:19:39.555-08:00I think it's a great idea to email the other M...I think it's a great idea to email the other Mothers, we're here to support you in the baby loss dept, and they can help you work through some of the feelings towards the surgeries. And that you found another mother who lost during surgery, is both sad (for her) and happy you might have someone to connect with. I'm hoping that some email you back.<br />As for Liams burial.... I don't know what to say, any day that it falls on will be special, and so sad! Let us know what you decide so that we can be thinking of you and your family!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com