tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8985288635111425215.post3460336967392335838..comments2023-05-25T04:27:07.695-08:00Comments on For the Love of baby Liam: Do I Really Have to Wait....Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11917822168137274298noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8985288635111425215.post-92036771110786267822011-03-29T06:56:03.260-08:002011-03-29T06:56:03.260-08:00I understand the not wanting to wait to try again....I understand the not wanting to wait to try again. I was actually told that I should wait a full year before trying again. My OBGYN told me that he saw no reason for me to wait, but the hospital and doctor that delivered our daughter told us it would be best to wait. I am so conflicted about waiting or not waiting. We have decided to put it in God's hands and if it is His will that we have another baby then it will happen in His time. <br />I agree with Laura Jane, do what feels right for you.Rachelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02274586692716466353noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8985288635111425215.post-73191074083419076562011-03-22T21:04:26.886-08:002011-03-22T21:04:26.886-08:00Just to give you another frame of reference... I w...Just to give you another frame of reference... I was told I was good to start trying at 6 weeks postpartum and I too had a c-section. <br /><br />I agree with the other girls, the longer the better. But I know in my heart that if my OBGYN told me 6 months, I would have thought to myself, well 4 is close enough to 6... And 3 is close to 4... See where I'm going with this?<br /><br />I'll be under close guard, will never get past 38 weeks, and I'll have a ton of ultrasounds. Could it all go terribly wrong? Absolutely. But I know (that for me), I can't wait.<br /><br />I think, in the end, you need to do what you need to do. And make decisions you can live with. The time frames seem to range from 6 weeks to 18 months... Where they get this timeline I'll never know...Lj82https://www.blogger.com/profile/01067562341189588336noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8985288635111425215.post-29406121566299778792011-03-19T11:22:10.597-08:002011-03-19T11:22:10.597-08:00Thanks for the feedback everyone but I find strang...Thanks for the feedback everyone but I find strange how everyone I talk to has been told a different time frame for getting pregnant againBeckyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11917822168137274298noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8985288635111425215.post-75412970160818273402011-03-19T02:13:32.119-08:002011-03-19T02:13:32.119-08:00We had a c-section and were told to wait 9 months....We had a c-section and were told to wait 9 months. So 6 sounds like not very long to me. I understand wanting to try again right away. But if you try too soon and something goes wrong medically will you be able to handle it? I know I wouldn't.My New Normalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03482513767849843084noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8985288635111425215.post-86897069271052186142011-03-18T22:06:44.296-08:002011-03-18T22:06:44.296-08:00Waiting is truly torture but worth it if it gives ...Waiting is truly torture but worth it if it gives you the best chance of a healthy child and less risk to you... but every day can feel like an eternity. I feel your pain... thinking of you always xoxoDandelionBreezehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06988561541523178095noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8985288635111425215.post-51267627758340212372011-03-18T15:58:22.390-08:002011-03-18T15:58:22.390-08:00That numb spot may be there longer than you think!...That numb spot may be there longer than you think! I had surgery to remove a fibroid (essentially the same incission/procedure as a section) about 8 months before we went for invitro with Jenna.. I was still numb around the inscision, the plus side of it was, I was numb when injecting myself with needles! Sometime after it went away, and after my section with Jenna, there was no numbness.. funny.<br />Hoping the next few months fly by, and you have your healthy rainbow baby soon!<br />Hugs!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8985288635111425215.post-61565062229370474632011-03-18T15:22:50.744-08:002011-03-18T15:22:50.744-08:00Thanks for the input Mary, 6 months totally sounds...Thanks for the input Mary, 6 months totally sounds like torture and agree I will be watched a lot closer and the Dr.'s will probably understand my urgency to get checked out more often as I even feel needed. 6 months is soooo long! But good luck to you guysBeckyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11917822168137274298noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8985288635111425215.post-6743665428643849952011-03-18T15:10:08.978-08:002011-03-18T15:10:08.978-08:00Becky, I'll be completely honest with you...as...Becky, I'll be completely honest with you...as a BLM who had a c-section, I was told to wait a minimum of 8 months. Well, we're starting at 6 months. I know the risks...I know the possible outcomes, but I don't care. The six months was torture, but everything I read said that 6 months is a safe mark. So we're going for it. I personally think 6 months is the minimum, considering you will be watched like a hawk during the next pregnancy anyway. I know I will be, according to my peri.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13666103858316621352noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8985288635111425215.post-85106308839751153352011-03-18T14:48:34.485-08:002011-03-18T14:48:34.485-08:00well in my situation and experience is that when y...well in my situation and experience is that when you are ready to have a baby and then they die you not only lose them, you also lose all your hopes and dreams you had with them right along with it, and want nothing more than to have a child because you feel so lost and empty. There is nothing worse to go to the hospital pregnant and then to leave no longer pregnant and without your child. I know you say do what feels natural but if that were the case I'd choose to be pregnant already.Beckyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11917822168137274298noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8985288635111425215.post-78596656772149948002011-03-18T14:27:51.400-08:002011-03-18T14:27:51.400-08:00I wish that I had waited longer between my kids (t...I wish that I had waited longer between my kids (they are 30 months apart). How does this apply to you? Well, your body does take it's own sweet time recovering from pregnancy...and I feel like if I would have waited a little while longer for Nolan and gotten back down to a healthier weight, it would have been ALOT easier. Not to mention what you must be going through emotionally...ultimately, though, you should just do what feels natural for you :)stephaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04009214693131203362noreply@blogger.com